I am conscious that Mums will be in the middle of the school holidays, so this “Stress Tips for Mums” is a blog is for you!
Being a Mother will likely be one of the most difficult things you have ever done, but on the other hand, it will be one of the most rewarding jobs of your life. As a Mother, you often forget to take care of yourself because you’re caught up in the madness that is life. It doesn’t matter if you’re a stay at home mum or you work outside the home, being a Mother is stressful! Luckily, there are some great strategies to help you deal with Mum stress.
Stress Tips for Every Mother
TIPS FOR STRESSED MUMS DURING THE HOLIDAYS
Children like to know the rules and boundaries, so get the children on a schedule. The best thing that every Mother can do for herself is to get her off-spring on a schedule and keep them on it. When you try to stick to a routine you’ll feel more comfortable handling breakfasts, lunches, fun time and bed times. When you don’t have a schedule, you may begin to feel scattered or disorganised and your stress levels will increase exponentially! Things are always unpredictable when kids are involved, but when you have even the simplest structure, your days will be a little more predictable and you’ll save your sanity!
Don’t be afraid to put yourself in time out. Many Mothers feel like they just have to keep pushing forward when they are about to come unglued. Mums get stressed and often need to take a breather, just like kids! Instead of continuing to push forward when you are about to snap, walk into another room and just breathe deeply for a few minutes. While you are breathing, picture how you would like to respond to the situation and then remind yourself that it is important for you to follow through in a calm manner. After all, you’re a role model for your children. A minute or two in “time out” can make for a great day for the whole family!
Eat healthy. If you ask 100 Mums what their diets are like, at least 85 of them will look at you and cringe. Unfortunately, there’s a tendency to just eat what you can, when you can. Even if you are on the go you need to make a conscious effort to eat well. When you eat nutritious foods, you are providing your body with the energy it needs to keep up with your children and cope with the stress you encounter every day.
Create a support system. Teaming up with other Mums makes a great support system. Even if you can’t get together every couple of weeks, it is nice to know that you have someone you can call who won’t question your abilities but will just listen and empathise. All Mothers feel the stress that comes with the job, so make sure to surround yourself with other Mums that will be happy to listen to you when you need a shoulder to lean on; and be sure to return the favour!
Make time for yourself. As a Mum, you may forget that you’re an important too! This is why you need to make time for yourself every day. You may think that there is no time, but there is if you get help or if you sneak in some relaxation after the kids go to bed or before they get up.
Give yourself a manicure or pedicure, drink that cup of tea slowly, read a book, take a long bath, or get a massage. Your relaxation time doesn’t have to be extravagant, but it needs to be there. Even 15 minutes every day can make all the difference
We have a training day at Champneys Spa, Ashby de la Zouch on September 28th entitled “Celebrate Retirement.” This is a training on lifestyle decisions and financial planning as you approach Retirement. Is this of interest to your older relatives or friends?!
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